In every relationship you have to know your role. You need to know who and what you are in the relationship. The word “Worth” is very important. You need to ask yourself, “Am I worth it?”. But before you are in a relationship you need to love yourself first.What does the word “Worth” really means? Do you always have to be worthy if you are in a relationship?Why?There are times that you think you are worthy with that person but you are not.
People tend to be in a relationship without asking oneself if he or she is ready to be in one. Others misinterpret another person kindness and importance. You think that you’re both okay but when you tried to ask them you are just a friend.Why do we always assumed that he or she likes us?or loves us?Do we always misinterpret others?
Being in a relationship is not a game you need to be ready and you need to be serious about it. You need to be blunt to that person and you need to tell what are your limitations and expectations. Don’t even try to take advantage. If you think you are not yet ready to be in a relationship, tell him or her honestly. You need to be real and true about your feelings you need to hide it or pretend that he is important to you but in the end you’re both “friendzone”.
You don’t have to be shy about it. Instead of letting that person wait let him or her know. Being worthy in the relationship or even friendship is important. If you are not worth in the relationship you need to think more if you need to pursue or not. It is not bad to give up but waiting forever is sometimes tiring, too.
The relationship should be worth it if you are sure with it. Be sure that the person that you are with is worthy and he or she will fight for you. Try not to worry more or stress yourself about the relationship you need to enjoy it and just be worthy.
QUOTE OF THE DAY:
“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
― Jess C. Scott, The Intern