Let’s talk about Love and Sex

Is sex really important in a relationship? Well, to some it can add spice in your relationship but how about if you are in a long distance relationship. You cannot hug, hold hands or even kiss if you’re in that relationship. What are you going to do?

Reality check, I want to be blunt to everyone and this is just my opinion. There are times that some guys and gals if there partner are from them they tried to flirt to others. There are temptations around. How can you fight those temptations?

Will the relationship last with only love? Or it should be with love and sex? What if someone wants to be with you only for sex and you love him or her purely? Is there any chance that he or she will love you seriously? How can you be sure that he or she is not only after the “SEX”?

In my opinion, sex is also important in a relationship so it won’t be boring. It is not the center of the relationship always. It doesn’t mean that if you meet up it will end up always like having sex. You can be together and try to do activities so you can enjoy more. You can travel, shopping, eat out, go to amusement park or have a picnic at the park.

Love and sex both are important but it should be balance. Sometimes you do miss that person much and you will feel the urge to really do it. But try to be calm and just let it happen. You need to understand what your partner’s feelings to.


“Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they’re not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days. They begin the dance one day and finish it the next , or–such is the pleasure they experience–they may never finish it. No eleven minutes for them.”
                                                                         ― Paulo Coelho, Eleven Minutes



12 thoughts on “Let’s talk about Love and Sex

  1. In the relationship love is really important than sex.. It is important that, you always have happy bonding to each other every time you meet.. It is important that, you will give time to each other.. You have to do your best to make your partner happy all the time.. However, there are other person who didn’t appreciate all your effort and sacrifices that you do and that is the saddest and painful things that can be happen in your life………….. Even though, you tried your best to apologize in different way but still that person leaves you behind….

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  2. As long as you are in a monogamous relationship, sex is never a bad thing. I agree with you, it does ass spice in your relationship but it doesn’t mean you should be dependent on it. But it is also not bad to have it all the time as long as you love the person you are with. If you do it with someone you are not romantically in love with, then that is when sex becomes not a part of the relationship anymore, but as a commodity…a need to satisfy yourself without thinking of the possible consequences. It is difficult though, especially when your love is a thousand miles away. But you can hold on until that time you will be together. 🙂

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      • That is true! If you are into video games, you can play games together and play against others together. That always makes me feel like my boyfriend and I are fighting against the world. 😀 We are also writing a novel together, and we stay up all night Skyping so we could brainstorm, it does wonders as well. What about you and your boyfriend?

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      • That’s cute… Hahaha. Well he is into video games but I’m not Hahaha.. He is reading my blog so what we do is we watch his fave animation and listen to his fave Korean songs.. Hahaha… 😁

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      • Yup.. Even if he doesn’t understand it he likes the beat of the songs.. Yup I love 2ne1,bigbang,exo and now I like block b… How about u? Any fave singers?


      • Haha! Same goes with my love. He only likes Psy tho. He only knows Gangnam Style and Gentleman. He also says he’s only after the beat. I only like a few Korean groups. I like 2NE1 specifically. I am more into Indie and some trance and alternative rock music. I like old bands as well. You do know Pink Floyd, right? I like that band. And if we’re talking about modern day singers, I love Ed Sheeran and Sam Smith a lot. Are you more into Kpop?

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      • I think I’ve heard about Pink Floyd but I’m not familiar with their songs he he he… Not really I love pop songs and I like Ed Sheeran but I love Taylor Swift my boyfriend likes dubstep and upbeat tracks like skittles and diplo’s tracks.. He hates pop music and mainstream songs hahahaha #opposite 😄😄😄


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