Hello everyone! Today is just an ordinary day. I am at work and quite busy but trying to write a blog. It is really hot in here and at night it’s rainy. Crazy weather! I am excited this weekend because I will chat and Skype with my love.
Nowadays, I am very puzzled about my relationship with a friend. By the way she is a girl and just pure friendship. She is such a complicated person. I am not mad or anything but it’s just that sometimes we cannot understand her. She is like denying everything that’s why we cannot understand her.
The reason is she accused us that we are judging her about something. For me, I don’t really understand the real reason about it. It’s like I only know about the story about her and a special person when me and special person talked about them. Well, they are both girls and they have special feelings with each other but my friend kept on denying this special person.
As a friend, I want to weigh in the stories and of course I don’t want to judge my friend so I am just waiting for her to open up but I guess it won’t happen. It’s just unfair to my part that I was judge too for nothing. I didn’t ask anything about them just that special person opened up to me and I am willing to listen. I am also giving advice so I can help that special person, too.
I just don’t understand that if you are friends I mean REAL friends you won’t hide something to your friends. You don’t need to say it all but you can try to share something about you. As a friend, I won’t judge about relationship. If you love same sex it’s fine if it is your happiness we don’t mind it and we will support it.
I just want her to be true to her feelings and to herself. She needs to be open-minded and try to reach out. The doubts or pains that she is feeling we can try to ease it. I don’t want our friendship to be broken and it is not a big problem. For now, we are just trying to understand her and just waiting if she wants to share her side.
Thank you for reading. Have a nice day.