We Need To Be Strong

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Long Distance Relationship is tougher relationship than close distance. There are many hindrance in long distance relationships. Sometimes, couples if they are in this relationship they break up and can’t continue their love. I do understand those reasons because I’ve experienced it and it wasn’t good. So if you want to be in long distance relationship think a million times and ask yourself if you are willing to risk many things. I am in Long Distance Relationship but I don’t suggests it to others. It’s not that I am making a bad image on long distance relationship but the reason is it’s better to be closer with your partner. You need to be strong if you are in LDR. On this post, I will give tips on how to keep your relationship despite the distance and even if you are in a close distance relationship.

  • Relationships have ups and downs. It means that it’s not always happy days for the both of you. There are times that problems and arguments are there. Always remember that you should be there for them whatever happens.
  • Give space. Problems may occur not in the relationship itself but individuality. If your partner wants time to think about his or her problem give them time. Don’t force them to tell you about it because it can lead to misunderstandings. You do care for them we all know that but let them be the first one to open it up to you.
  • It should be US and WE not I and YOU. You are in a relationship meaning two people are involve. Everything happen in that relationship is always WE. The problems that both person encounter is not for one person to solve it. Remember you are always be on it together.
  • Be positive. Negativity may be around you but you can shake it off all away. Try to focus on the brighter side of the relationship. Don’t let negativity stay in your relationship.
  • Allow yourself to be Open. You have to be honest on how and what you feel. Don’t be afraid to tell to your partner about your fears and everything about your relationship. Do not hide from them.
  • Have time for each other. It’s easy to understand. Dates and travels are the best thing to do. Have sometime to bond together.
  • Be a supportive partner. Supporting your partner is good with the relationship. It can be an emotional support. If your partner done something good you can at least commend or praise him or her.
  • Set Goals together. You cannot have a good relationship if you don’t have goals together. Try to make a list of the goals that you both have in mind. You should have to go in one direction together. Sometimes you can’t accomplish your goals together don’t feel bad about it remember that it’s a win-win situations.

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Staying and being strong in the relationship can’t happen in one click. You have to do it. Actions are more important than words. One more thing don’t forget to say “I LOVE YOU” in any way you can. It can mean that you are always there for your partner. I hope that it can somewhat help you guys to have strength in your relationship.

Thanks for reading 🙂

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QUOTE OF THE DAY:

” The Best Relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest one, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”

– Pandora Palkilos –

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Day 16,17 : 30 Day Music Blog Challenge

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I am done with my LDR challenge and I tried to look for another challenge this month. I am music lover and I will enjoy this game.

CHALLENGE :

There are 30 challenges (questions) and of course I need to answer it and explain why I choose that song. The favorite lyrics of the song.

Day 16 : A Good Song For A Wedding

Answer :

I Do – 98 Degrees

This is the perfect song for weddings. Based on the title itself. I also like listening to the girl version of the song.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 17 : A Guilty Pleasure Song

Answer :

One Last Time – Ariana Grande

I keep on repeating this over and over. I love the vibe and the song lyrics of this song.  The beat keeps on playing and playing on my mind even if I am not listening to it.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 12,13,14,15 : 30 Day Music Blog Challenge

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I am done with my LDR challenge and I tried to look for another challenge this month. I am music lover and I will enjoy this game.

CHALLENGE :

There are 30 challenges (questions) and of course I need to answer it and explain why I choose that song. The favorite lyrics of the song.

Day 12 : A mind-tripping song

Answer :

I CAN’T THINK OF ANYTHING 😦

Day 13 : A Song You Listen To When Feeling Rebellious

Answer :

Avril Lavigne – Losing My Grip

It makes me feel angry when I am listening to it. The song is about love and the guy doesn’t care about the feelings of the gal. I love Avril Lavigne’s songs I can relate to some of the song lyrics.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 14 : A Song That Cheers You Up

Answer :

Taylor Swift – Shake It Off

I love her so much. I am a swiftie and I love her songs. This song when it plays makes me happy and just shake the bad vibes off away.

FAVE LINE:

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Day 15 : A Song That Calms You Down

Answer :

MYMP – These Dreams

They are a filipino band and they are called MYMP ( Make Your Mama Proud ) . This song is a revival and I love the way she interprets the song because her voice is like an angel.

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LDR Week Of Love

This Love month LDRBN community had a challenge for their members and one of them is you have to post it on Instagram.

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I started this challenge last Saturday and I will share to you guys the photos that I posted:

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DAY 1 : Something RED

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My RED Lippie and Nails

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DAY 2 : Your Fave Photo

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These are my crazy friends. We really love taking photos and do crazy stuffs. 😛

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DAY 3 : Heart Shaped

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You will see this soon. These photos should be a secret but I don’t have a choice. It’s cute ♥

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DAY 4 : An Instagram Memory

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This is ME. I posted this 195 weeks ago. This is one of my first photos.

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DAY 5 : Hand Writing

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I don’t have a good penmanship especially doing lettering stuff. I tried my best 🙂

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DAY 6 : Tag Your True Love

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This is the day that I am a little worried about because I have to TAG him and since he doesn’t have any social sites account I just use the Hashtag.

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DAY 7 : Something Spicy

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This is a fun day because I don’t know what to eat or do here but good thing I saw my favorite chips and so lucky that it’s spicy hahahaha 😛

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Instagram Challenge is fun… You can try this,too. It suits for Love month.

You can follow me on Instagram : deeinlovewithnigel

Day 6,7,8,9,10 and 11 : 30 Day Music Blog Challenge

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NOTE: I haven’t posted in here because my bad I forgot the questions photo at the office. So, I am back after the long vacation that I had.

I am done with my LDR challenge and I tried to look for another challenge this month. I am music lover and I will enjoy this game.

CHALLENGE :

There are 30 challenges (questions) and of course I need to answer it and explain why I choose that song. The favorite lyrics of the song.

Day 6: A Song That Inspires You

Answer :

 THROUGH THE RAIN – Mariah Carey

Every time I hear this song I feel the positive vibes all over me. This song is really good especially if you want to move on to the things that are bad for you.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 7: A Song That Has Helped You Through A Painful Time In Your Life

Answer :

THE VOICE WITHIN – Christina Aguilera

When I am having a problem and when the time that I was in the phase of giving up this song help me to be strong and I know that there are still people that care for me especially my mom. I have purpose in life why I am still here.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 8: A Song That Makes You Want To Dance

Answer :

DESSERT – Dawin

This song is famous in the Philippines and every radio stations play this song even on TV. I watched the music video and I really like it. I love the melody and even the lyrics of the song.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 9: A Song That Makes You Emotional or Sad

Answer :

GOD GAVE ME YOU ( girl version )

I love Bryan White’s version of the song but when I tried to search for girl version and I was touched when I heard it. When that song plays on my playlist I always remember Nigel.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 10: A Song With Exceptional Lyrics

Answer :

I’M GONNA SHOW YOU CRAZY – Baby Rexha

I just can’t explain but this song pops out when I am searching for the song with exceptional lyrics.

FAVE LINE :

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Day 3 : 30 Day Music Blog Challenge

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I am done with my LDR challenge and I tried to look for another challenge this month. I am music lover and I will enjoy this game.

CHALLENGE :

There are 30 challenges (questions) and of course I need to answer it and explain why I choose that song. The favorite lyrics of the song.

Day 3 : ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE SONGS

Answer :

GOD GAVE ME YOU – Bryan White

This is my song for Nigel. The lyrics of the song is so special and meaningful. When we started having a relationship I can feel that this song fits for him. I am so thankful that Nigel came into my life. Honestly, I feel emotional if I hear this song. I don’t know why.

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Day 1 : 30 day Music Blog Challenge

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I am done with my LDR challenge and I tried to look for another challenge this month, Good thing I found this challenge. I am music lover and I will enjoy this game. This challenge was sent to me by my friend on messenger she was the one who started it for my LDR challenge. She looked for the perfect challenge for me this month. I am accepting her challenge to me 🙂

CHALLENGE :

There are 30 challenges (questions) and of course I need to answer it and explain why I choose that song. The favorite lyrics of the song.

DAY 1 : A Song That Describes YOU

Answer:

REFLECTION – Christina Aguilera

When I heard this song from the movie “Mulan” I got attached to it. I think it describes me a lot because there are times I am still hiding from a mask. I am a happy person outside but inside I am not really. In love, I am complete but there are still missing in other aspects of my life.  I just can’t explain it all in here but there are parts of my life that are needed to be hidden. I feel so strong but there are times I am weak. It’s about family matters. I am open to Nigel whatever he may asked about my past.

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Do you have a song that describes you? What is it?

Thanks for reading 🙂