Listen To (Sad) Love Songs

Since I am missing my boyfriend. I think this might be a good idea to write about this. I am a music lover and I love downloading songs especially sad love songs. I love listening to brokenhearted ballads. But no one actually love being sad and depressed. So why do we love songs about sadness and misery? Look at the musical hits of the last several decades: Songs about breakups, heartache, loneliness, and regret are always there and it’s a hit. What do we feel when we are listening to this kind of songs?

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Many people choose to listen to sad music when they’re feeling down and the desire to listen to sad music is strongest directly after the beginning of being in a bad mood. It looks like sad music can be enjoyable  rather than depressing because it triggers positive memories that can help to lift our mood.

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There are times that listening to this kind of music can CONNECTS us to it.Listeners can feel the emotions expressed by the music or the meaning of the lyrics. They look for this kind of feeling when they want to re-experience those same emotions. Some listeners are more into the MESSAGE OF THE SONG ( SONG LYRICS ). When they heard the song they will like the melody of it first and after they tried to search for the lyrics of the song.Sad love songs have more intense meaning and a lot of people can relate to it. REMINISCE THE PAST that’s what they experience. The past memories that they experience can take them back. DIFFICULTY IN EXPRESSING EMOTIONS especially when you are sad. There are people that can feel sadness but can’t show it so mostly they are listening to this kind of music to help them ease the pain, hurt, sadness, misery that they are feeling. Once they cry on it they will the relief that they needed. I think it’s a HEALING  to others when they are listening to sad music. Sadness is a universal feeling, so a sad song can create a sense of connection, but it can also teach us that sadness can become something beautiful and enduring. It’s a perfection.

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I know that not all of us love  listening to this kind of music. There are times that other music genre can help others with their emotions. For me, music can help me to be more positive. Without music I think I am not complete. I don’t download songs that are more on melodies but I am focusing on the lyrics of the songs.

QUOTE OF THE DAY :

“Music speaks what we cannot be expressed, Soothes the mind and gives it rest. Heals the heart and makes it whole. Flows from heaven to the soul.”

It’s Been Awhile

Hello everyone!!!  It’s been a long time that I haven’t updated my blog because of a lot of reasons.  But it’s a surprise for now soon I’ll post more about what had happen while I was away. 

I  am still thankful that even I haven’t updated still my stats spike up once in a while.  So for now I hope you guys are fine and well and if you have any questions or stories to share you can click my facebook page.

I’ll post soon.  Love you everyone ❤❤❤

Xoxo

Dee 

Indéfini Lipstick Review: Smooth Latte

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Hello! I ordered another lipstick from a friend. This product is different. This is Sophie Paris. This product is from Indonesia. Before I ordered it I tried to check the online brochure. I thought that the color was kind of red shade but when it was given to me. The shade is like orange-brown shade.  I guess based on the name itself it has orange-brown shade ( silly me!! ). Its fine so I want to give it a try.

PRODUCT INFO:

Brand: Indéfini Lipstick by Sophie Paris

Name: Smooth Latte

Net Wt: 4g

MADE in Indonesia

Price: Php95/each |  Approx. USD$2.00

Where to buy: Sophie Paris website

PROS and CONS:

  •  For me, the packaging is simple. I just like the  heart design on it.
  • When you apply it has a smooth finish. It has a soft matte effect.
  • You can’t buy it anywhere you have to check the website or if you know someone that is selling Sophie Paris and has brochure you can order it.
  • The longevity of the lipstick probably 3-4 hours.
  • It’s cheaper from other lipstick brands.
  • I like the smell of it and it doesn’t have greasy  texture.
  • It suits my skin tone and it looks good on my lip.

    DEE’s POV:

    Color & Pigment:    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥  4/5

    Longevity:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 3/5

    Price:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 5/5

    Overall Experience:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

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     The result of the lipstick on me is different it has a natural – pinkish effect on my lip.I have the same opinion with the last review that I had. Will I recommend it? Yes, I will. I just wish that the color is different from the website ( pictures can be deceiving ) 😛

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The Result ❤

 

Color|Full Love Your Lips Matte Lipstick Review

Every time I see lipsticks I want them for real. I want to collect different kind of shades. For now, I am trying this “Color|Full Love Your Lips Matte Lipstick” by Tupperware. I ordered from a friend and I am satisfied with the color of it. I got “Champagne” ( it’s a natural shades ) and “Perfect Pink” ( well, I am addicted to the color ). I love the result when I applied it to my lip because it gives me the look that I wanted. Well below I will list down Information of the Product and Pros and Cons about the lipstick :

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PRODUCT INFO:

Brand: Tupperware Brands PH – Color|Full

Name: Love Your Lips Matte

Net Wt: 4g

MADE in the Philippines

Price: Php109.00/each | PROMO: 2 for Php179.00 – Approx. USD3.89

Where to buy: Tupperware Brands PH

PROS & CONS :

  • The packaging is such a cutey because there are hearts design on it.
  • They glides on smoothly on your lips, and will settle finely on the chapped lips line.
  • It is matte but it doesn’t dry on your lip and it has a glossy effect.
  • The lipstick lasted for about 3-4 hours.
  • It is cheaper than the other brands and it has promo on going.
  • You can’t buy it anywhere you need to buy it online or if you know someone that is selling tupperware brands.
  • The quality is nice for it’s price.
  • Even though it’s matte it’s not dry on your lips.

DEE’s POV:

Color & Pigment:    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

Longevity:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 3/5

Price:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 5/5

Overall Experience:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

RESULTS:

Thanks for reading 🙂  Have a good day ❤

Who Cheats the Most? Men or Women?

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Last topic I posted about Cheating. One of my friend asked : Who cheats the most? Men or Women?. She left me a hanging question and suggested that I need to write about it. Not everyone will be unfaithful and I do agree with that. Before I answer that question I will try to research more about it. I want to be fair. There are factors that can influence a person to cheat :

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  • Attractiveness of the person – influenced by one’s physical appearance, social skills, and one’s resources like money.  People who have higher incomes, more education, and have more success in life are more likely to cheat than people who are less successful. Physical attractiveness also plays an important role.
  • Risk Takers – People who like to take risks or more adventurous are more likely to cheat.  There is most likely a genetic component involved in risk-taking behavior—some people may be willing to take risks in cheating.
  • More Influential – Influential people are likely to cheat. Having power increases confidence, leading individuals to act in more aggressive and outgoing ways. Powerful people are more likely to make direct eye contact and approach potential lovers. Power influences the likelihood of cheating for both men and women.
  • Flirty Conversations – We love to communicate with other people. We tend to express our feelings to our friends , co-workers and etc., Sometimes we forget that the conversations that we are into are too flirty and not appropriate. Being flirty and having a flirty conversation are there if we are into that person.

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While checking online , and I do feel sorry about the result but WOMEN are likely to cheat than MEN. The survey claims that women ages 35 to 40 were the most likely to play around  in being unfaithful because many are childless and looking to get more than a goodnight kiss as a result of a meeting of love affair. Surprising right?

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There are a lot of research and surveys that psychologist did to women and men to know who is unfaithful in the relationship. The reasons why women got higher percent because there are times that mostly women are housewives they feel lonely especially if their husband’s work is traveling to other countries. So sometimes they are too friendly with other guys in the neighborhood.

Some men don’t pay attention and don’t spend too much time with their wives after they have kids. So as a wife, you need to be beautiful for your husband. You lose weight and go to the gym to let him appreciate you more but because of some men in the gym notice you more and more you feel more appreciated. Because of the attention that is existing there will be times that you flirt with other guys.

NOTE : I want to share this you : The Science Of Infidelity

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It’s important to remember that all relationships take work and none are perfect. The solution to unhappiness in love, relationship and marriage is probably not to have sex with other men or women. It’s much better to communicate or talk with your significant other and working out your problems—before you do something that can ruin the relationship. On the survey, 15 percent of men say they would forgive a cheater.

QUOTE OF THE DAY:

” A cheaters punishment is to live a life of mistrust because they live in constant fear that the person they cheated with will also cheat on them; some call it poetic justice. But I call it KARMA.”

 

 

He or She Cheats

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Adultery and Cheating are always in the relationship whether you’re married or just in a relationship. The most common reason : Spouses or partners cheat because of problems in relationship. Something is missing, love has faded, partners feel lonely or sad, a partner finds someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more. They are not happy with their current relationship so they find someone else that can make them happy. Another reason : there are people who ignores the true meaning of cheating and they keep on asking the question : Why is it difficult to be faithful in a relationship?

There are research that about 60% of spouses ( wives or husbands ) cheats during their marriage. There are lots of questions why they can’t be loyal to their spouses but how can they make a decision to cheat? Decisions are not so easy to say you have to think twice and deep to fully have it. In a relationship, making promises to be loyal to their spouse or partner , most people are serious in doing it and have intention of keeping their promises. In making decisions about love and not being loyal, reasons have a difficult time competing in controlling our emotions. Sometimes our emotions are influence by our behavior and lead us down to the way that it wasn’t suppose to be.

There are Types of Cheating like : Physical Cheating , the act of being sexually intimate with someone other than your spouse or partner. It is the most common among men and women but it can be view differently. Men view as depriving by force and a form of physical rejection. For women, may be more likely to see beyond the physical misjudgement if they perceive that emotions were not involved.The cheater feels emotionally connected to his partner and may only be seeking to fulfill a sexual fantasy. Emotional Cheating , may begin as friendship. An emotional cheater finds himself intimately confessing in the person, sharing thoughts, dreams and there’s an emotional closeness that would normally be reserved for his friend.  With emotional cheating, the cheater’s heart may no longer be in the relationship and the relationship was not progressing. Cyber Cheating , includes net pornography, online dating and flirting with other people on social networking sites. It is harder to catch than other forms of cheating. It requires the couple to have access to other’s computer passwords and to pay close attention to conversations each person is having on the Internet. Chexting ( Text Messaging Cheating ) , common to the high profile affairs of celebrities who were caught cheating via text messaging. According to Fox News, this is a new form of cheating because it supplies the physical proof of being unfaithful. It includes sending sexually explicit messages or pictures ,texting to arrange  dates and meeting in person . Even simple messages, such as asking how someone is doing, can be considered chexting if the intention of the person sending the text is to hook up with the recipient.

Last year, the site Ashley Madison revealed about husbands that are cheating to their wives and a lot of people panic because it was hacked. Once you cheat you may allow yourself to become distracted from your partner, and from what’s real and what’s important. In a world of where we’re loaded of  information, temptations and distractions are common. Lacking of communication with important things with your partner can driven you away from them.If one of you is a problem-focused rather than looking for solutions in the problem, you will feel worthless for a partner rather than compassion. This can lead someone to seek comfort from others.

NEXT TOPIC : Who Cheats most? Woman or Man?

QUOTE OF THE DAY:

“Cheating isn’t always kissing, touching, or flirting. If you have to delete text messages so your partner doesn’t see them, you’re already there.”

 

 

 

All I see and hear is HATE

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I am a SWIFTIE  and I won’t deny that I am on Taylor Swift side. This post is my opinion and my feelings about the hate posts that I can see and read on the news.I will accept any comments neither bad or good.

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It started when Calvin Harris and Taylor Swift broke up. A lot of people made memes about Taylor moving on so fast with Tom Hiddleston.  – So, what’s wrong with moving on too fast? A lot of people do it. If an ordinary person moving on too fast we don’t have any bad comments but well she is a celebrity and a lot of people are watching her especially her love life. We don’t really know why and when did they lost their love with each other. I know that they have a 15-month relationship and that’s really good. I am a #TayVin fan but at first I was kinda disappointed that they broke up but it’s their choice and we don’t need to judge either Taylor and Calvin. Taylor is happy with Tom Hiddleston so why can’t we just shut up and stop hatin them. We can’t control their feelings for each other.

The song ” This Is What You Came For ” was written by Taylor Swift and it was confirmed by Calvin Harris – He posted it on twitter last July 13 ( Wednesday ). The first posts was fine but why do you need to drop names on the post. I just can’t understand it. Let’s say they agreed that it should keep it as a secret but as a saying goes ” There will not be uncovered secret “. Everyone will still know about it. I know that he was upset about what is happening but he shouldn’t posted it. Think before you click, Calvin. You were with her before and I know that you were both in love and it was a real love why can’t you just talk to her and not posted it on social media.

KimYe VS. Taylor Swift – Kim Kardashian started this when Calvin Harris posted last July 13. She said that she wants to defend her husband and she is calling Taylor Swift a liar because she approved the song ” Famous ” . Last Sunday, she posted on her snapchat about the revelation of the phone call ( Kanye West – Taylor Swift convo ). Social medias was exploded with a lot of hate comments and even celebrity took sides ( #TeamKimYe and #TeamTaylor ).  I was hurt about the comments that I read and it wasn’t good . Both parties explained everything about the controversy.

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MY FEELINGS:

This controversy is too much and massive and it can’t be control. Just like I said earlier I am still with Taylor Swift. I haven’t met her personally and never been in her concert but I still support her. Let’s say that she lied about the approving of the song but that it’s not the point why she is upset about it. On the phone call, Kanye never mentioned about ” I made that bitch famous ” and of course as a woman you don’t want someone will call you that kind of name. There are times that word is an expression but still it isn’t appropriate word. There are  cuts on the video clips that we didn’t know. It’s not fully that whole conversations itself. Kim Kardashian is defending her husband but there’s a question about it : Why do they need to record the conversation? It supposed to be between the artists. Both of them are good when writing down lyrics but the words are explicit. If he is truly a friend why do you need to say ” Bitch ” . Let’s say Kanye will call Kim that what will be her reaction? Is she okay with it? If you are a real friend you don’t need to dragged other down.

Other people commented and posted ” The Snake ” emoji and make fun of Taylor Swift. Even made the #TaylorSwiftisoverparty and they are so happy about it and it will bury her career and her now. A lot of people supported ” CYBER BULLYING ” but isn’t this one of the cyber bullying situation. And also medias make it worst. More and more news that they are posting on any sites and mostly negative about it. I know that not mostly all that commented are Kanye and Kim West fans but they just hate Taylor Swift because they think she is Fake. All of us have Flaws even celebrities , famous people etc., We are not born perfect well, others think they are but it’s not.

Why can’t we just stop hating and spread love. I know that not all of you who will read it will agree but still it is true. I know that you won’t agree that it is Cyber Bullying because you are just expressing yourself but can you try to re-read your comments and think if it is nice or bad. I am not against expressing oneself but you need to think bad side and good side of it. If I will be hated or loved with what I posted in here I don’t care I just want to weigh everything and express what I feel about this controversy. I am hurt, I am upset with it. I know that I can’t please everyone. Always remember there are two sides in every story and you have to clever on which is which needs to be heard and accepted.

TO FELLOW SWIFTIES :

I know that a lot of you guys are upset about Taylor Swift lying to us but as a true swiftie we still need to be with her not physically but emotionally. The comments that you are reading against her is trying to manipulate you. Before judging her you need to read everything either bad or good news. You met her, you like her songs and even you are with her on her concerts but why suddenly change your mind and turn back against her. She isn’t perfect. She is always misjudged and make fun because she always play the victim but can’t you really see the REAL her. I am too upset with it but I am trying to understand why she did it. I just hope that you will be more broad minded and think more positive in her. She has her flaws and she isn’t perfect. If you won’t support her why are still liking her songs? Why you still have the Taylor Swift’s stuffs? I just hope that you will support her no matter what.

TO TAYLOR SWIFT:

Be strong! A lot of fans and your family and friends are always there for you. I know you are a smart woman and I know you can make it through this. I know a lot of people will dragged you down but don’t mind them. Think more of it on a positive way. People are judging you that you Fake but for me you are REAL and GENUINE. I won’t and don’t regret supporting you because I know that I’m on the right side. I know that this controversy will fade. You don’t need to explain anything and everything to others because it’s a choice. One post is enough no need to add up. I am hurt and while writing this makes me cry because I do know what you are feeling this time. Stay calm and be more positive. Focus on the brighter side and don’t be stress about it. Just like Selena Gomez song ” Kill Em With Kindness ” and I love you, Taylor ❤ ❤ ❤

 

 QUOTE OF THE DAY:

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