In a Relationship : Foreigner Boyfriend

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I am in a relationship and I am PROUD of it. My boyfriend is a foreigner and he is English. It’s just that there people who will judge why do you like foreigners. I know that there are people that can relate to me but there are some that feels envious about the relationship. I do feel bad whenever I hear people murmuring or gazing at us (especially me )  whenever we pass by them. I’ve experienced that when he was here for a vacation ( his first visit ). I know that you can’t stop other people from criticizing the relationship.

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Before I prefer to have a Filipino boyfriend because I know that there will be spark between us. After experiencing the heartbreaks I promise myself not to have another Filipino boyfriend. I don’t judge all of them but after the same reasons of having my heartbroken I think it’s enough. ( Enough… enough…!!!). Now, let’s start… I will share that there are disadvantages and advantages of having a foreigner boyfriend.




DISADVANTAGES AND ADVANTAGES:

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  • Cultural differences this can be a disadvantage and an advantage because it’s good that you can learn a new culture and you will more expose to it but sometimes there are couples that are having a conflict because of adapting of each others cultures.Be more optimistic to it because you are learning another culture and I think it’s a cool thing to do ( especially food you will discover new taste and special kind of foods )

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  • There is an instance that you can have  miscommunication because of languages ( Language Barrier ). There are times that learning another language and pronouncing the words properly is difficult. Learning each others language is fun and interesting because it can help you to communicate more to your partner’s relatives and friends.

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  •  Migrating to which country will stay ( if it’s her or his ). Who will migrate is you or your partner. There will be a lot of discussion to make and the decision making can be a headache. So the best thing is the both of you need to talk more about it and try to share their ideas about migrating.

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  •  This is the fear of all, being in Long Distance Relationship. Not being together. Miles and miles apart form each other. This can be hard. I know because I am in this situation but communication is the key. You need to communicate with each other just a simple or quick text to send to you partner is enough. Loyalty needs to be there,too. If you are in a relationship you are committed and it means it’s only your partner even you are two worlds apart.

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  • There are times that other people will think that you have partner that is a foreigner because of money or visa. Discrimination of other people is always there and present at all times. I experienced it and there are times that it was difficult to handle and I can’t hide my feelings. I don’t share it to him but he knows that I was hurt whenever other people are murmuring or gazing at us.



QUOTE OF THE DAY:

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
― C. JoyBell C.

Love Ain’t Enough, Love Fades too

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If it’s about Love everyone is excited to hear and it’s a hot topic to discuss. There is a song that inspired me to write this post. It’s like we found love and we are happy with the relationship but why there are times it’s difficult to keep it? Love is a beautiful thing, until it fades away. From the lyrics of the song :

” But there’s a danger in loving somebody to much,
and it’s sad when you know it’s your heart you can’t trust.
There’s a reason why people don’t stay where they are.
Baby, sometimes love just ain’t enough.”

Why love fades? What happen to the relationship that once like a fairy tale and so perfect?

❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤

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There are some people that are not realistic when it comes to relationship or love. They expect it like fairy tales and romantic movies. There are some cases that when reality bites they will feel bad and disappointed about their relationship. The colorful and bright changes to dark and gloomy. In this cases, we need to grow up and don’t expect too much.Feeling appreciated and special play an important role in the relationship. In the beginning of the relationship everything is much appreciated but what happen when time flies? That’s why there are some couple feel that the relationship is not all worth it.

Why is it loving too much can ruin the relationship? It’s because we’re being possessive with our partner and we don’t trust them. When are in love you have to weigh in everything. How many percent? For yourself? For your partner? We shouldn’t give it all. It’s risky but you need to ask yourself if everything is worth the risk.

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They say that it’s better for the relationship when your partner is with you because the love will stay and won’t fade but I don’t believe in it. For me, there are some close distance that their love fades because of losing attraction to each other. There are times that we are too familiar with each other that’s why love fades. Familiarity can be the reason because we know our partner too much. Instead that we think of them as our partners it leads to friendship. The feeling is changing without any notice.

Arguments and misunderstandings like we all know is always there in the relationship but there are some relationship that I think they don’t know how to handle arguments and misunderstandings. Being honest about our feelings can sometimes too hard to say. When we get into the habit of swallowing our feelings and turning against our partner rather than stating how we feel, it’s not a good sign at all. Some people give up so easily because of this reason but it’s better to talk about it.

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If the one you love breaks your heart so badly that you feel bitter and unhappy and the trust that you had wasn’t there anymore we feel that we fall out of love for sure. Love and Trust  are needed in the relationship it won’t be a real relationship if there’s absence. Forgiveness can be given but to the fact that they hurt you love fades.
Yes, love becomes boring  and love does fade with time. Its law of nature. Everything fades. The roses that he gave you from the red petals to brown to black. The love letters that you keep the writings fade because you keep it for so long.  Everything is gonna end. So is love.
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So, if there’s a chance to stay together you need to find ways to keep your love alive. I know that you both know each other and how to hold on to the love and relationship that you have. Obstacles are the just tests for the both of you. If you give up easily it means that you don’t treasure each others love. Love ain’t enough and love fades but be strong and hold on.
❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤ ❥ ❤
QUOTE OF THE DAY:

” Never love anybody who treats you like ordinary.”

– Oscar Wilde

Love But Wrong Time

 

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When do we say we found the right one?

But we found that person at the wrong time…..

All of us can relate to it. All of us have his/her own experiences with it.

We meet someone and we talk with that person.

You think that you “click“.

There’s a “spark“.

Emotions are getting stronger. Chit chats are longer.

You have your own world and everything is so “PERFECT“.

Suddenly, reality strikes…

Someone hits you…

You CAN’T be together. Oh! DAMN!!!!

It’s funny but the reality is Real and True.

There are many reasons, there are many realizations.

I know it hurts but you just feel bad about everything.

Crying inside and you question yourself ” Why? “.

Trying to protest your feelings but can’t do anything.

You just smirk. Look down. Making the most of your time being together.

The laughs and memories can be keep and at the end of the day you just say,

” I am happy to meet you and thanks for knowing you “.




 

( NOTE : I wrote this because I watched a video on YouTube and I was inspired by it. I am one of her followers and the message on that video I know that a lot of people can relate to it. If you have time please check her videos and the name : LeendaDProductions)

QUOTE OF THE DAY:

” If the heart matters enough, timing doesn’t.”

 

 

Listen To (Sad) Love Songs

Since I am missing my boyfriend. I think this might be a good idea to write about this. I am a music lover and I love downloading songs especially sad love songs. I love listening to brokenhearted ballads. But no one actually love being sad and depressed. So why do we love songs about sadness and misery? Look at the musical hits of the last several decades: Songs about breakups, heartache, loneliness, and regret are always there and it’s a hit. What do we feel when we are listening to this kind of songs?

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Many people choose to listen to sad music when they’re feeling down and the desire to listen to sad music is strongest directly after the beginning of being in a bad mood. It looks like sad music can be enjoyable  rather than depressing because it triggers positive memories that can help to lift our mood.

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There are times that listening to this kind of music can CONNECTS us to it.Listeners can feel the emotions expressed by the music or the meaning of the lyrics. They look for this kind of feeling when they want to re-experience those same emotions. Some listeners are more into the MESSAGE OF THE SONG ( SONG LYRICS ). When they heard the song they will like the melody of it first and after they tried to search for the lyrics of the song.Sad love songs have more intense meaning and a lot of people can relate to it. REMINISCE THE PAST that’s what they experience. The past memories that they experience can take them back. DIFFICULTY IN EXPRESSING EMOTIONS especially when you are sad. There are people that can feel sadness but can’t show it so mostly they are listening to this kind of music to help them ease the pain, hurt, sadness, misery that they are feeling. Once they cry on it they will the relief that they needed. I think it’s a HEALING  to others when they are listening to sad music. Sadness is a universal feeling, so a sad song can create a sense of connection, but it can also teach us that sadness can become something beautiful and enduring. It’s a perfection.

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I know that not all of us love  listening to this kind of music. There are times that other music genre can help others with their emotions. For me, music can help me to be more positive. Without music I think I am not complete. I don’t download songs that are more on melodies but I am focusing on the lyrics of the songs.

QUOTE OF THE DAY :

“Music speaks what we cannot be expressed, Soothes the mind and gives it rest. Heals the heart and makes it whole. Flows from heaven to the soul.”

It’s Been Awhile

Hello everyone!!!  It’s been a long time that I haven’t updated my blog because of a lot of reasons.  But it’s a surprise for now soon I’ll post more about what had happen while I was away. 

I  am still thankful that even I haven’t updated still my stats spike up once in a while.  So for now I hope you guys are fine and well and if you have any questions or stories to share you can click my facebook page.

I’ll post soon.  Love you everyone ❤❤❤

Xoxo

Dee 

Indéfini Lipstick Review: Smooth Latte

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Hello! I ordered another lipstick from a friend. This product is different. This is Sophie Paris. This product is from Indonesia. Before I ordered it I tried to check the online brochure. I thought that the color was kind of red shade but when it was given to me. The shade is like orange-brown shade.  I guess based on the name itself it has orange-brown shade ( silly me!! ). Its fine so I want to give it a try.

PRODUCT INFO:

Brand: Indéfini Lipstick by Sophie Paris

Name: Smooth Latte

Net Wt: 4g

MADE in Indonesia

Price: Php95/each |  Approx. USD$2.00

Where to buy: Sophie Paris website

PROS and CONS:

  •  For me, the packaging is simple. I just like the  heart design on it.
  • When you apply it has a smooth finish. It has a soft matte effect.
  • You can’t buy it anywhere you have to check the website or if you know someone that is selling Sophie Paris and has brochure you can order it.
  • The longevity of the lipstick probably 3-4 hours.
  • It’s cheaper from other lipstick brands.
  • I like the smell of it and it doesn’t have greasy  texture.
  • It suits my skin tone and it looks good on my lip.

    DEE’s POV:

    Color & Pigment:    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥  4/5

    Longevity:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 3/5

    Price:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 5/5

    Overall Experience:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

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     The result of the lipstick on me is different it has a natural – pinkish effect on my lip.I have the same opinion with the last review that I had. Will I recommend it? Yes, I will. I just wish that the color is different from the website ( pictures can be deceiving ) 😛

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The Result ❤

 

Color|Full Love Your Lips Matte Lipstick Review

Every time I see lipsticks I want them for real. I want to collect different kind of shades. For now, I am trying this “Color|Full Love Your Lips Matte Lipstick” by Tupperware. I ordered from a friend and I am satisfied with the color of it. I got “Champagne” ( it’s a natural shades ) and “Perfect Pink” ( well, I am addicted to the color ). I love the result when I applied it to my lip because it gives me the look that I wanted. Well below I will list down Information of the Product and Pros and Cons about the lipstick :

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PRODUCT INFO:

Brand: Tupperware Brands PH – Color|Full

Name: Love Your Lips Matte

Net Wt: 4g

MADE in the Philippines

Price: Php109.00/each | PROMO: 2 for Php179.00 – Approx. USD3.89

Where to buy: Tupperware Brands PH

PROS & CONS :

  • The packaging is such a cutey because there are hearts design on it.
  • They glides on smoothly on your lips, and will settle finely on the chapped lips line.
  • It is matte but it doesn’t dry on your lip and it has a glossy effect.
  • The lipstick lasted for about 3-4 hours.
  • It is cheaper than the other brands and it has promo on going.
  • You can’t buy it anywhere you need to buy it online or if you know someone that is selling tupperware brands.
  • The quality is nice for it’s price.
  • Even though it’s matte it’s not dry on your lips.

DEE’s POV:

Color & Pigment:    ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

Longevity:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 3/5

Price:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 5/5

Overall Experience:   ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 4/5

RESULTS:

Thanks for reading 🙂  Have a good day ❤