Long Distance Relationship Will It Lasts?

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This modern world, many people are trying online-dating and many couples find themselves in long-distance relationships. But do they last? Being together with your partner is believed to help and maintain romantic relationships by giving people a chance to understand each other, and yet, some long distance relationships tend to last. Researchers suggest that one reason long distance relationships last is because they are likely to have the idea of having a romantic relationship with their partner or the tendency to describe their relationship in unrealistically positive terms.

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Couples that are in long distance relationships tend to look back about their relationship in a more positive way. Being positive in the relationship can lead them to believe they have a lot more in common, regardless of whether or not they really do. Partners in long distance relationship have the advantage of always showing most positive way possible in maintaining the idea of the relationship. In other words, people in long distance relationships rarely see all the daily ups and downs of their partner’s mood and attitude.

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There are times that when they close the distance there are some couples break up because they already know their partners personality. Distance can prevent partners from learning about each others negative qualities thus only creating an overly positive impression. The relationship may be happy and stable they are not together but in reality can become quite disappointing once back together.

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How can you make your long distance relationship last long? Some couples said that long distance relationship can last long by increasing the amount of communication. And this modern world, there are plenty of ways to increase it. Social media sites, messenger, text messaging, phone calls, and emails can supplement face-to-face communication. Others said that TRUST is also important in this relationship. Don’t give 100% you need to  And BEING COMMITTED is one of the reasons,too. Even though your partner is miles apart you are committed to your partner and you are not allowed to look for another partner because the reason is you miss your partner.

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GOOD COMMUNICATION with your partner is one of the key so your long distance relationship will last. Make sure to talk about everything, just as if you see your partner every day. When you are unable to close the distance yet, you and your partner need to develop other more creative and unique ways to become intimate with each other. Partners that take active and strive to get know each other will have a more realistic idea of their relationship, and will make their Long Distance Relationships Last.

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QUOTE OF THE DAY:

“Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It’s for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough…”

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In every relationship TRUST is important. What is the real definition of this word? Can you define it to me? I am happy that my friend suggested this. For me, trust defines a real relationship. Why? There are a lot of experiences and stories about it. LDR is the best example on how you define the word Trust.

There are a lot of questions if you are in LDR. We’re miles apart, how can I be sure that he won’t cheat on me? Being cheated is definitely the worst part of the relationship. Honestly, if I trust someone I give my full trust to that person. I know, I know it is not good to give your 100% to that person especially if your partner is far. What can I do? I love him.

Honestly, I do trust Nigel and I know that he is loyal and he gives me his trust in me, too. Let’s say, I know if the person is lying or not. I don’t want to have any issues about Trust because it can ruin my relationship. I am just happy that he tells me the truth. He is a type of person that is straight forward so I know that he will not do anything or say something to hurt or lie to me.

Going back to the Trust topic, always remember it doesn’t matter if you’re near or far as long as you trust your partner your relationship doesn’t have any issues. There will be times that you will doubt that person but you need to weigh in a lot of things before you judge your partner. If you have doubts, you need to be honest and tell your partner why you feel that way.

Remember any issues in a relationship can ruin it but as long as you talked about it will lessen down doubts and fears. Trust your partner and never tried to start any arguments. Trust, Love and Communication these are the things I learned from being in a relationship. If one does not exist it won’t be complete.

QUOTE FOR TODAY:

“Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.”

                                                                               ~ Stephen Covey ~