I worried too much….

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I admit that I am a worrier. I worry a lot that’s why I feel the stress more. I know that being a worrier is a big NO-NO. I just can’t help it. Nigel told me to relax and don’t think too much about problems because it won’t help me at all. While relaxing, I tried to find ways not to mind it.




 

1. Don’t Stress Yourself Too Much. – Stress is a word that a lot of people know and it is within you it will stay longer unless you leave it behind. Being stress can think your more negatively and can focus more on bad things. What you have to do is let loose of yourself. You can try to go for a walk, watch movies, write about something, eat out and have a good shower.

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2. Stop Being a Perfectionist. – Some of us are afraid to make mistakes.Your standards will be so high that you’ll also be dissatisfied with the result that other people would find acceptable. You won’t be contented with what you are doing at work or school.

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3. Focus. – Being focus with one thing at a time can help you stop worrying too much. You’re not thinking a lot. Your mind won’t be crowded. Too many thoughts can make yourself struggle on a daily basis.

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4. Talking to friends or relatives that close to you. – Talking can help you release the stress that you are in to. This is just a simple thing that other people can help you. Nobody can take away your worries but when others showing you that they care it means much.

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5. Fear Less – Too many questions on your mind can take over your life. The ” what if? ”  questions are not a good question for yourself. What you can do is try to visualize that the problem is finished. Then try to think of the positive result of the problem that you are thinking of.

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I know I make mistakes.. I am human … I am not perfect.. We all are…

QUOTE OF THE DAY:

“Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry. Worry never fixes anything.”
– Mary Hemingway

Long Distance Relationship Will It Lasts?

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This modern world, many people are trying online-dating and many couples find themselves in long-distance relationships. But do they last? Being together with your partner is believed to help and maintain romantic relationships by giving people a chance to understand each other, and yet, some long distance relationships tend to last. Researchers suggest that one reason long distance relationships last is because they are likely to have the idea of having a romantic relationship with their partner or the tendency to describe their relationship in unrealistically positive terms.

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Couples that are in long distance relationships tend to look back about their relationship in a more positive way. Being positive in the relationship can lead them to believe they have a lot more in common, regardless of whether or not they really do. Partners in long distance relationship have the advantage of always showing most positive way possible in maintaining the idea of the relationship. In other words, people in long distance relationships rarely see all the daily ups and downs of their partner’s mood and attitude.

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There are times that when they close the distance there are some couples break up because they already know their partners personality. Distance can prevent partners from learning about each others negative qualities thus only creating an overly positive impression. The relationship may be happy and stable they are not together but in reality can become quite disappointing once back together.

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How can you make your long distance relationship last long? Some couples said that long distance relationship can last long by increasing the amount of communication. And this modern world, there are plenty of ways to increase it. Social media sites, messenger, text messaging, phone calls, and emails can supplement face-to-face communication. Others said that TRUST is also important in this relationship. Don’t give 100% you need to  And BEING COMMITTED is one of the reasons,too. Even though your partner is miles apart you are committed to your partner and you are not allowed to look for another partner because the reason is you miss your partner.

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GOOD COMMUNICATION with your partner is one of the key so your long distance relationship will last. Make sure to talk about everything, just as if you see your partner every day. When you are unable to close the distance yet, you and your partner need to develop other more creative and unique ways to become intimate with each other. Partners that take active and strive to get know each other will have a more realistic idea of their relationship, and will make their Long Distance Relationships Last.

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QUOTE OF THE DAY:

“Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It’s for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It’s for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don’t see it nearly enough…”

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Beauty Trends 2016 ( my choice )

I am a fan of beauty. I love watching videos of people doing there make up. I am lucky to have friends that are good in doing make up and they are teaching me on how to apply this and that. While at work, I tested my friend’s dark red lipstick and I think it fits me. I am starting to change pink to red this 2016. I ordered a red lipstick to my co-worker and I will review about this once I have it. I tried to look for make up trends this year and check what will suit me. These lists are based on the articles that  I read online.

BLUE

Experts said that blue eye shadow is a trend this year. You can use different shades of it and can make it simple or have smoky eyes. They already showcase the blue eye shadow trends in a fashion show. Checking online , an expert said that it can accentuate the eyes and giving a fun kick color. Below are the fun way to use the blue eye shadows :

 

ACCESSORIZE YOUR EYES

Falsies are trend this 2016,too. You can try different designs or add up some diamonds or rhinestones below your eyes. They said it can help your eyes to have an intense look.

 

CLASSIC RED

Red lipstick will never goes out of style. We can wear it anywhere or whenever we can. We use dark to bright red lipsticks. It can be glossy or matte type of lipstick.Whatever you want to wear.

 

VAMPY LIPPIE

I saw this lipstick used by the Kardashian and I tried to buy mine but I gave it to my friend because I have strong features so if I put it on my lip I look so different. This kind of lipstick will still be a trend this year if you just want to change the classic red thing. You can go ahead and try different kind of shades in the market.

 

GLOSSY

Glossy look can be stylish this year. It can be used in your eyes, cheeks or even lips. Make up artists said that it can highlights every part of your face. It can make you look natural.

 

DO THE TWIST AND KNOTS

Hairstylist, Antonio Corral Calero said that he wants a real woman to recreate the look at home. They’ve come up on how to do knots and twist on hairs but still can look elegant. You can wear it whenever you want to, either high or low bun or pony tails.

 

DO THE COLORS

In 2016,there are hair colors that will stand out. The trends for 2016, they said that if your blonde you will go darker this year and that’s what you called Bronde. Dip dyed hair. Ronze color is a trend,too and it is a mixture of copper red and bronze brown.Opal or Rainbow hair color if you want to experiment and make fun with your hair.

These are the trends that I read about beauty. Hope this can give you an idea. I am trying to choose in hair colors because mine was golden blonde I am thinking to go darker but I am not yet sure of it. Thanks for reading 🙂

 

Love is… (Day 77)

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Having a Natural beauty is great but when it comes to your special someone you have to look good meaning you don’t have too put too much make up or too sexy clothes to impress him. Light make up and just casual dress or clothes is fine to wear. Always remember that if you are in an LDR you should try to have a bare face when you are doing a video calls with your SO. It is better so he can see the real beauty in you.

Don’t Break My Heart Slow

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Please stop it now

This is like telling a vow

The lies that you are saying

And the games that you are playing

I believed you for all the time

But I was silent like the mime

Do you mean what you say?

And this is what you pay

I’d rather you be mean

Even if you make a scene

I will accept it all

Even if you post it on a wall

Please don’t break my heart slow

I don’t want to wait for it below

It’s fine if you blow

So it’s like a river that flows

I really thought our love will last forever

But oh god! You are damn clever

You haunt me for sometime

I was so scared and have a downtime

Please stop this nonsense

Hoping you have a conscience.

Fantasy Love

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You are my fantasy

Like I read in a story

You are the prince that I am waiting for

Like I always adore

I’ll wait in the castle

Hoping there will be no hassle

Fantasy of Love that I feel for you

Feeling like it’s new

Been together for a long time

And maybe it will be for a lifetime

I am awake

And I know ours will be no heartache

I want to be closer

I am so lucky I might have the clover

It’s not a fantasy love anymore

Because we both know we adore

We do love each other

And see each other in the future.